We create our own reality. We really do.
We are incredible creators with enormous power. Consciously or unconsciously we are always choosing.
I can look out my window and see a beautiful garden, full of life. I can decide that I’m a fabulous custodian of the earth.
Or I can see where the weeds are choking out the thyme and where the new lemon tree isn’t thriving. I can decide that I’m a terrible gardener who’s too lazy to pick a few weeds.
Both of these views have a truth to them. I choose which way to lean.
One of those views will make me feel great, one will not. And I take this feeling into the rest of my whole day and everything in it. I choose.
This is true of every aspect of my life.
I can be a human on a path of discovery and growth or a grown-arse woman who should have got her shit together by now. Both have their truths, I choose where to put my energy, which parts to focus on and grow.
It has to be a conscious decision. If I’m not checking in with myself about what I’m believing then underlying beliefs will take the wheel.
If I fundamentally (often unconsciously) believe that I’m not worth much, that will play out in my life. When I notice how I view myself or a situation then I take back my power and choose the world I want to live in.
For me, this is the best game to play. This is where I find meaning and joy in my life.